Memorial Day is more than just the unofficial start of summer—it’s a solemn occasion to honor the brave men and women who gave their lives in service to our country. As parents, it’s important to teach our children the true meaning behind this day so it doesn’t get lost in the excitement of backyard barbecues and beach trips. Whether your child is a curious preschooler or a thoughtful tween, this guide shares age-appropriate ways to explain Memorial Day, meaningful family activities, and helpful resources to make the holiday both respectful and memorable.
How to Teach Your Children About Memorial Day
Memorial Day weekend means different things to different people. For some, Memorial Day is the unofficial kickoff to summer. For others, it is a time to honoring the U.S. military personnel who have died while serving in our U.S. Armed Forces. Today I’m sharing how you can teach your children the importance of Memorial Day.
I wrote this post in 2017 when it was the first time I found myself explaining the importance of Memorial Day to my three year old, Annabelle. She was old enough to understand the holiday and she learned a little bit at preschool about its significance. It’s not just a long weekend – I found myself explaining to Annabelle why Daddy was home today and feel like she sort of understands the meaning of the holiday.
Memorial Day is for remembering and honoring those who sacrificed their lives while serving in the armed forces. For many, it is also a day to honor family and friends who have died.
6 Easy Ways to Teach Kids About Memorial Day
- Encourage a moment of remembrance on this holiday. Ideas include having a moment of silence, taking a moment to say a prayer, or perhaps ringing a bell in remembrance of those who have done so much for this country.
- Have your children create a card or picture to be sent to a soldier serving overseas, through organizations like Operation Gratitude and A Million Thanks.
- Teach your children about medals of honor. You can print a Medal of Honor coloring page and learn the history behind our brave Soldiers.
- Go to a Memorial Day parade.
- Craft poppy flowers. Teach children the meaning of Red Poppy as a sign of rememberance.
- Visit a local memorial or cemetery with flags and flowers
Age Appropriate Messages about Memorial Day
On this Memorial Day, May 26, 2025, I have three daughters ages 3-11. Wondering how to talk about Memorial Day with young kids or older kids? Sometimes you may have to have three different age appropriate conversations about Memorial Day.
- Preschoolers: “Memorial Day is a special day when we say thank you to the brave people who helped keep our country safe.” Focus on basic concepts like bravery and safety. Create a patriotic craft together. Parents
- School-aged children: Memorial Day honors people who served in the military and died protecting our freedom. Introduce deeper historical context and encourage participation in community events. Use real-life examples or family stories if appropriate. Parents
- Tweens: “Memorial Day can be hard for some people because they’ve lost someone who served our country. It’s a time to reflect and show respect.” Engage in honest conversations about war, loss, and the emotional weight of Memorial Day.
More Sources to Teach Kids about Memorial Day:
- Five Simple Ideas about Memorial Day for Kids
- Memorial Day Lesson Plans
- Simple Ways to Make Memorial Day Memorable for Kids
And before we go, a few more photos of my girls when they were little – Memorial Day 2017.
Read more about teaching children another holiday – Earth Day- here.
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