I have been reading a lot of 2013 Resolutions on blogs…and if you follow me, you know that I have yet to post any for myself. This year I decided that I am not going to make any “resolutions” for myself.
When teaching my first graders about the definition of resolutions, I told them that they are goals to improve oneself. They are little changes you can make it your life to be more happy. Since I have embarked on my own Happiness Project, I don’t feel like I should put any more pressure on myself to change.
I have already made a lot of changes in my life in the past four months.
1. Become more positive.
2. Think before I react in stressful situations.
3. Get dressed. A put together outfit will make me feel put together.
4. Fight right.
5. Be a better sister, daughter, friend, wife.
Granted I am still working on these goals to become more happy, I feel amazing. I have noticed a change in the relationships I have with people around me – a change that is positive and noteworthy. I have made it a point to be more conscious about my moods – if I am anxious or angry, I think about why I could be feeling this way, and I either talk it out with someone, or figure out how to feel better on my own. I have done things I never thought I would do….
Unplanned happy projects: I started a dance club at my school. I went out alone for a “girls night.” I sent hearts to Newtown. I am completing 26 Acts of Kindness.
Unplanned happy projects: I started a dance club at my school. I went out alone for a “girls night.” I sent hearts to Newtown. I am completing 26 Acts of Kindness.
In the first month of a this new year, I can honestly say…
I FEEL HAPPY!
So why do I need to change?
Meg says
Great advice! Be happy, be positive, be you! Love it!
Catalyn H says
Thanks Megaloo! xoxo
SMD @ lifeaccordingtosteph says
My goals for this year are not really changes to myself or way of life – they’re things I want to accomplish this year. Like skydiving and finally touching up the paint on our bedroom ceiling!
Happy New Year!
Catalyn H says
Oooo I like those!!!
Kenya @ Life with Giggles says
So glad you are feeling better!!!! Isn’t it great! And I am sure you were REALLY happy when the snow started coming down!
Kenya @ Life with Giggles says
By the way, did you receive the package of MonaVie? I just realized I never heard from ya. 🙂
Catalyn H says
No I haven’t!!! Otherwise I would’ve definitely thank you and told you!! 🙁
Kenya @ Life with Giggles says
So I just had to come back and check this blog. I thought you didn’t answer me! lol. When you use the reply feature, the person leaving the comment doesn’t get notified that’s why I didn’t know you responded! I will look into it. UPS never notified me of anything going wrong. I’ll email you and let you know what happened. Sorry about that! Wish I would have asked you sooner now.
REBrown says
I always make goals and resolutions and never keep them – one month down is way better than I normally do.
Rachel Easley says
Stoping by from the FFF link up…Yay for UT! Love the bow. I live in Nashville. Love the picture of you snuggling with yoyr sisters. So cute! And the last picture is my fav. I love snow!!
Lisette @ Northern Belle Diaries says
I like these! I love that shot of you. Was that a picnic? (Why aren’t you a model yet?)
Catalyn H says
Hahaha! A model? No way jose… I am too short and not “model-ish” looking. But thanks girlfriend 🙂
It wasn’t a picnic, just me laying down after a few beers at a flag football game, hah.
Anonymous says
Much better 🙂 loves you! Miss you already so much!! Xox-Kara
The Mom says
I am so happy to hear that your feeling good about the new year. your positive attitude will take you so much further then doom and gloom I know remember you and Lizzie call me Debbie Downer wawawah…
Love all your pictures and sooo enjoyed your visit and my seeing my son in law…come back soon 🙂
Southern Belle Mama says
Very well said! Sounds like you have made some wonderful changes with the Happiness Project…I need to follow your lead on reacting to stressful situations! 🙂
Catalyn H says
It is hard but it pays off in the end!
LWLH says
You’re awesome the way you are love!! 🙂
sara with an h says
So proud of you! Just from being a follower for awhile now, I can totally notice the change in your after embarking on your happiness project 🙂 keep it up!
Catalyn H says
Aw thanks!! I am happy it’s noticeable 🙂
Rorie says
Awhh, love al the pictures & how happy you look!! Great resolutions!!
Catalyn H says
Thanks Rorie!!!
workinglupie says
Best New Year’s post I’ve seen! It’s because of you and your blog that I went out and purchased The Happiness Project and it’s been amazing so far. Happy 2013!
Catalyn H says
Thank you so much for the support! Hope you are loving the book 🙂